It was all so clear but I haven chosen to ignore it. I have not never ever imagined it would come to this but then again I felt like I always knew. What do you expect to get from someone who fights all the time with their parents. Who dwells in the past who takes their anger out on me for no reason way to go big sister you have done a great job. I have tons of stories to tell from many years being stuck in between being their garbage bag , getting texts , running from places to come to the rescue of a relationship that is or was already broken. Nothing worse in life is to have nothing to do with something you get blame for. I lose count of how many times I have been told to move out.
On top of mom having memory loss and me dealing with all of her care paperworks and coordination I still get looks of evil in the house texts of anger if something goes bad between the two of them even if I am far away.
I get told that all I do is feed of her money like I don't pay the bills and if is her turn to stay with mom it depends on her mood and if she decides to discuss with someone going through memory loss and tries to correct her and mom will most likely get angry here comes me to the rescue and then I have to hear stories of childhood, sometimes this is surreal.
Is a prision that I am praying hard to escape , not long ago it was that time when she took her to church once after what happened and I get call up for dinner to what, get yelled at for diving up the week to take care of mom and to get even deeper I was thrown a glass of water at my face and got my shirt wripped. It was a horrible night it is the most unfair night to see someone get stress out on you because mom has memory loss , way to go big sis.
Way to go to the family who assumes more than actually asking me any questions.....